Your wedding vows are one of the most treasured parts of your special day—yet the thought of speaking those promises out loud can give anyone butterflies. The good news is, there are plenty of ways to share or preserve your vows that fit your comfort level. We’ve outlined several vow-delivery options, along with tips for those who decide to read them in front of friends and family.

If you’re in the midst of wedding planning, one task stands out as truly personal: writing your own wedding vows. You and your partner share a one-of-a-kind story, and your vows should reflect that uniqueness.

When you say “I do,” you’re not just agreeing to forever—you’re sharing a piece of your heart with the person you love most in the world. It’s no wonder writing your own wedding vows can feel overwhelming. But here’s the secret: it doesn’t have to be! We’ll show you how to craft deeply personal vows that capture the spirit of your relationship—without the stress.